Knowing Charleston: The Quirks That Make Her Uniquely Herself
- Monica Edwards
- Feb 21
- 4 min read
Updated: Feb 23
She is a city of rituals and unspoken rules, where traditions linger like the scent of jasmine in the air. Some customs are practical, some superstitious, and some simply hers—woven into the way she moves, the way she speaks, the way she welcomes those who take the time to know her.
Charleston carries herself with a quiet elegance, but beneath her charm lies a collection of quirks—endearing, steadfast, and deeply rooted in her past. She does things in her own way, at her own pace, bound by customs that have shaped her identity for centuries.
To know her fully, you must embrace the peculiarities that make her who she is—the piazza ceilings painted blue, the oyster roasts that mark the seasons, the way her people hold doors open just a little longer than expected. These are not just habits. They are echoes of history, whispers of the past wrapped in everyday life.
The Haunting Hue of Haint Blue
Charleston does not take spirits lightly. For generations, homes across the Lowcountry have been painted with haint blue, a soft shade of blue-green that graces piazza ceilings, shutters, and doorways. The tradition, rooted in Gullah Geechee folklore, was meant to ward off restless spirits—haints—who were believed to be unable to cross water.
Even today, the color lingers, a superstition turned aesthetic, a belief transformed into tradition. Whether for protection or simply for beauty, the pale blue ceilings remain a signature of Charleston’s homes, a quiet nod to the stories that still move through her streets.
The Homes That Welcome, Yet Guard
Charleston’s homes, like the city herself, are gracious but guarded. They invite you in, but only if you know where to enter.
Her most iconic houses do not face the street head-on; they turn sideways, their narrow ends to the world while their length stretches inward, parallel to the breeze. These are Charleston Single Houses, designed to embrace the wind and keep cool in the heavy Lowcountry heat.
Yet, as welcoming as they seem, they keep their secrets. Many have false front doors—a guest may step inside, thinking they’ve entered the home, only to find themselves on the piazza instead, with the real door waiting further down. Even the piazza floors lean slightly, designed not by error but by purpose—to guide away the rains that so often visit.
Like Charleston herself, these homes are built with intention—rooted in tradition, designed for grace, and quietly revealing their stories to those who take the time to look.
A City That Moves at Its Own Pace
Charleston has never been in a hurry. She strolls where others rush, she savors where others skim. There is a rhythm to her days, dictated not by urgency but by presence.
She takes the time for pleasantries, for properly written invitations, for long goodbyes that start at the door and finish halfway down the piazza steps. Her pace is deliberate, a reflection of a culture where history is not a backdrop but a living companion.
Time here bends differently. And in Charleston, slow is not a flaw—it is a virtue.
Manners Are Not a Formality, They Are a Way of Life
In Charleston, politeness is not optional. It is as much a part of the city as the cobblestones beneath her feet. A “yes, ma’am” and “no, sir” are not relics of the past but a sign of respect. A handwritten note is not an outdated custom but a thoughtful gesture.
Doors are held open without rush, introductions are made with care, and invitations—if done properly—still arrive in thick, cream-colored envelopes. Charleston believes that etiquette is not about formality but about kindness, a way of honoring those around her with small, intentional acts of grace.
And when it comes to goodbyes? They are never quick. They begin inside the house, continue on the piazza, linger at the gate, and stretch well into the street. Because in Charleston, parting ways is not just a moment—it is a ritual.
Oyster Roasts, Holiday Strolls & The Art of Gathering
Charleston marks time with traditions. She knows when the air shifts, when the tides change, when it is time to gather. Her people wait all year for the first oyster roast of the season, when bushels of oysters are steamed over an open fire, served on long tables, and enjoyed with quiet reverence—the briny shells cracking beneath skilled hands, the ritual as timeless as the tides.
As the year wanes, she does not rush into the holiday season but welcomes it with grace and tradition. Her piazzas are draped in fresh greenery, her mantels adorned with magnolia leaves, her doorways framed with fragrant cedar and ribbon in muted, elegant tones. December does not bring spectacle; it brings candlelit strolls along cobblestone streets, twilight concerts in historic churches, and tables set with silver and heirloom china, waiting for guests to linger a little longer.
These are her rituals, her celebrations, her way of keeping time.
Charleston’s Traditions Are Her Signature
To know Charleston is to embrace the quirks that make her uniquely herself. Her traditions are not just nostalgia; they are markers of identity, threads woven into the fabric of daily life.
She is the city that still writes thank-you notes by hand, that keeps her porches painted blue just in case, that believes goodbyes should never be rushed.
And perhaps that is her greatest charm—she does not change for the sake of change. She remains, in all her eccentric, elegant, and unwavering ways.
Charleston remembers. She holds tight to her customs, her courtesies, her way of doing things. To step further into her world, wander her storied streets, step through the doors of her past, stand where history was made, and move with the quiet grace of tradition.
Continue the Journey: Read the Next Chapter in This Series… Knowing Charleston: Her Aspirations—Where She’s Headed